conditioning existence –

how do we create our own stressful environments, and how do they affect our loved ones?

a manifesto for redefining our relationship with space and the objects we own.

how would life look if we lived more consciously, more connected to our essence rather than to the objects we possess?
to realize that life is more than just an accumulation of objects—it is a journey of self-discovery and authentic connections.

in a society driven by materialism and surface-level comfort, we have lost the ability to see beyond what we own. in our constant attempt to construct a perfect environment, we end up trapping ourselves, leaving deep marks on our lives and the lives of those around us.
we inherit transgenerational patterns of accumulation and protection—habits that not only impact our present but also create a stressful environment for our loved ones, one that can persist over time.

by shifting our perspective on the spaces we inhabit and the habits we develop, we begin to reflect on our relationship with the material world and the objects that surround us.

are we defined by what we own, or is life more than that?

why do we tend to accumulate excess objects?
how do we define ourselves through them, and what role do they play in our lives?
do they truly bring us joy and fulfillment, or do they instead become sources of anxiety and stress?

is our relationship with objects direct and authentic, or do we interact with them through a filter, a mediation that turns them into a mere representation of what they are meant to be?
these patterns are everywhere:

the smartphone—chosen not just for its performance but for its design, materials, and feel, yet immediately wrapped in a case and screen protector, depriving us of the tactile experience;

clothing—kept unworn because we are “saving it for a special occasion”;

new tableware and household items—left unused while we continue to rely on the old ones;

remote controls covered in plastic, sofas draped with blankets to preserve upholstery;

children not allowed to play with new toys for fear they will break them.

"time and space are not conditions in which we live; they are modes in which we think. physical concepts are free creations of the human mind and are not, no matter how it may seem, determined by the external world."

albert einstein

let’s shift our obsession with objects toward investing in a life defined by authentic relationships and spaces that truly support our existence. time and space, as we perceive them, are constructs of our minds.

both einstein and kant have shown us that these dimensions are conceptual tools rather than objective realities. similarly, the spaces we inhabit are direct reflections of our mindset.

how the spaces we create affect our emotional well-being

psychological studies show that human environments designed purely based on external aesthetic standards—without considering emotional needs—often lead to stress and dissatisfaction.
our spaces often become showcases of material accumulation, rather than sanctuaries of comfort and well-being.

we have transformed our environments into collections of objects rather than spaces for ourselves. expensive materials and objects have become symbols of status, yet they rarely bring peace or long-term satisfaction. this endless pursuit of material perfection fuels a toxic cycle of discontent and constant stress.

this obsession doesn’t only affect us—it affects those around us

our children grow up in environments where objects seem more valuable than shared moments.
instead of fostering genuine relationships, we unknowingly perpetuate a mindset that prioritizes possession over being.

it’s time to redefine the concept of comfort;

our spaces should be an extension of our identity, a place where we feel connected to ourselves and our loved ones.
rather than investing exclusively in objects, we should invest in experiences, emotions, and the creation of environments that nurture peace and authenticity.
let’s free ourselves from the idea that possessions define us and embrace a life where the quality of relationships and inner harmony take priority.

every aesthetic decision, every object we bring into our space, should be a conscious choice—one that adds emotional value and enhances our well-being.

we are not defined by what we own, but by how we live

the choices we make today will shape not only our present but also the future of generations to come.

it is time to rethink our relationship with space, objects, and time, so we can build a future where emotional well-being is just as important as material comfort.